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Caring For Them:
Educate yourself. Learn what happens as the disease progresses and learn how to deal with the patient in an effective manner. The patient cannot help what he/she does, nor can he/she be trained to change. You, the caregiver, are the one who must change. Your communication style, attitudes and ability to fill the patient's needs will be reflected in the well being and behaviors of the patient.
Bea Gorman’s life story about living with familial Alzheimers.
Tend to legal issues immediately. While the patient is still competent, arrange for a Durable Power of Attorney, Living Will, Healthcare Surrogate and review finances for future healthcare needs. Visit an elder law attorney for advice on estate planning or the formation of trusts. Find out what resources are available in your community. There are options available to help both you and the patient.
Learn how to care for yourself as a caegiver. Astressed, overtired cargivder is not providing the type of care he/she is trying so hard to give. This diagnosis is not the end of the road for you and your loved one. If you learn the ropes, be flexible, take one day at a time, have patience, keep your sense of humor, and use tender loving care, you can continue to enjoy many special times with your family member.
REMEMBER: The patient does not choose to do or say the things he/she does. The damage to the brain causes these things to occur. It is important to know this fact when your family member speaks in a hurtful manner. Repeat to yourself, "It's just the disease talking".
Yes, dealing with AD is a challenge. But, if you approach the situation with good information and find options that work for you, you will be better able to cope with the changes to come.